Nobody can win my heart

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The moment you realize that you can have everything you want in life. However, it takes timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn’t want it, need it or God prevented it.
(random quote I found in the internet)

People always ask me, "Dalin.. dah besar.. takde orang lagi ke?" or "rajin masak.. boleh kahwin dah.. suruh bf masuk minang" and any other "bila nak kawin?" questions.. and it annoys me so much, when I'm smiling but deep inside I'm going insane!! Seriously people that are sooooo concern about my life, thank you for adding me in "who I want to bother" list of yours.. I dont have a bf, and I dont need one.. they are just gonna waste my precious time, and would only distract me in doing those "lovey dovey" things that most couples do.. Okey, straight to the point, I USED to set my mind I want a bf a.s.a.p, so that I have someone to talk to.. to love me back.. to.. to.. yadda..yadda..yadda.. but not anymore..that is childish talking..   I can be a knight of my own.. I can love myself more than anybody else..

Please dont get me wrong.. No, I'm not against marriage nor against being in love.. It is just for now.. I dont like it..  I have my own aim.. its because I love myself to the max.. and yes, until now Nobody can win my heart.. jual mahal? Do I care..? its my future, not yours.. That is the reason why I love to cook, not just for myself, but indeed for my family or my future family..and please remember, I am not against marriage.. but if I'm going to settle down, let it be after I finish my studies plus a steady job.. 

But for now, to be in a relationship? Of course my answer is No.. relationship is about give and take, and dont forget about sharing.. be responsible towards your partner.. trust and believe.. giving space.. see..you are tied in a relationship and you must give commitment which is a hard task.. *phew* *lap peluh*

so if you see me on the street, please dont ask me, "bila nak kahwin weyyhhh"

Sincerely, 

me aka Dalin

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